Mekanos
Physically Repellant
- Pronouns
- he/they
I think for a lot of us who work in education, our natural response to bond and form camaraderie is talking to each other about how students are silly or into thing we don’t understand or doing XYZ. But at least at my work, we make sure to never interface with students in a way that makes them feel like we’re boring old adults who don’t like them. I love talking to my students about shared interests or finding ways to relate the work to things they like. The fact that I get paid to talk to students about Dragon Ball and One Piece fucking rips, lmaoyeah see maybe this is aligned with my thoughts. I have in a thousand different ways never been the type to fit into a group, so a lot of the weird group jokes — even in irony — feed back into the same alienation
which aligns pretty well with the reasons we’re often bestowed the cringe crown
sorry for uh being unnecessarily harsh with anyone
there’s just a lot that infuriates me with the world and my “peers” that boils down to a complete abdication of self-awareness
everyone damaged my capacity for grace with COVID responses. I mean it’s been a long line of horrors but I didn’t want to be so easy to throw under so many busses.
plus so many of the friends I thought better of — deigned believers in a better world — married landlords and cops who say theater kid shit about “daddy Biden” even with blood across the board
knowing my own betrayal, I guess I feel very much like I don’t want those who came after us to feel betrayed by us too. I get the sense they already do. not that we had power, but we had power over ourselves and what we put out there.
too much waxing and waning, lmao, I need to log the fuck off and not write everything I think here
I also have lots of younger friends who call me boomer or vice versa but it’s always treated as gentle teasing. I do concede your point though that millennials have a lot of humor based in self deprecation, and that can be alienating in certain circumstances.