Serious question: how can someone in the public eye, especially someone who cultivates a "wholesome" image, properly take responsibility for allegations such as these without publicly admitting to them? Sure, he has done so now, but it seems fairly obvious he only did so because Lady Emily forced his hand.
It's entirely possible he has made actual steps towards growth following this incident, but it feels like jumping the gun to applaud his response as demonstrating full rehabilitation, and it's a bit gross to suggest the whole thing had been "more or less settled for months now".
What else can we reasonably expect from him?
He has apparently been going to therapy for months, as soon as he found out the cause of his actions. I don't think that Emily told him to take it online at all, nor should I think that should be expected. If anything, him publicizing the situation would have made Emily further victimized.
And also, I am pretty sure that Chuggaa has publicly said that he is doing therapy before this situation as well(I could be wrong on that one).
He took responsibility for his actions, and made changes when he found out about them to now. Regardless of how Emily will feel about the situation, what is done is done. She can forgive him, or not. And Emile clearly says that. What's left is to simply move on and for Emile to grow and learn from the situation from here on out.
Everybody can make a mistake, and sometimes those mistakes are worse than others. The true test of a character though, is how someone reacts to a mistake.
He has:
Apologized Privately(Before all of this came up)
Apologized Publicly, both to Emily, and his fans
Apologized to his girlfriend: Even though she has nothing to do with the situation, but was brought into the situation.
Done Months worth of therapy(so far) so that this does not happen again
Promised to never do it again, and showcased exactly what went wrong, both publicly and privately
If this was just words, I could understand. But the fact that he has taken action of this, privately, for months, before all of this went public says it all. He isn't doing any of these actions to appease his audience, he felt genuine remorse and vowed to change his actions for himself and the people he hurt. Not for his image. To me that says loads, and I have nothing more to say about the situation and this thread.
You are all free to have your own feelings of the situation as well, so you can all take your time to go through anything else or any concerns and feel however you would like about him.