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I am really struggling to make friends and I feel I have done everything I can and college isn't helping at all.
British and college here is basically an extension of high school that you can go when ur 16 and you can take high school level courses here, you go on 3 times a week typically.
I started at a different college this past September but the problem was in October I was having surgery, so I had from the until January off. So in that time my classmates made friends but since I wasn't there, left me feeling isolated an none of them tried to help feel a part of the group. It didn't help that in March I had another surgery, so I had even more time off.
The course I am doing atm is a computing course, but in September I am switching to social science, so I am hoping that course will help me make friends, but that obviously means I have nothing to help make friends until then.
I also live in a pretty rural area so most events you could suggest to go to, to try and make friends, simply don't happen here.
I desperately want to make friends that live close to me, but I just don't know if it's possible for me. All the avenues I have tried lead to nothing, which just depress me even more, it doesn't help that my college isn't doing anything other than your course, so there's no extracurricular activity I could go to, but that may be starting off in September.
If there's anything, anything at all, you could suggest that could help me make a friend that lives close by, because it looks like I have tried everything that's available to me, multiple times and they have all led to failure.
I really really want a friend, I truly do but it just doesn't seem possible.
British and college here is basically an extension of high school that you can go when ur 16 and you can take high school level courses here, you go on 3 times a week typically.
I started at a different college this past September but the problem was in October I was having surgery, so I had from the until January off. So in that time my classmates made friends but since I wasn't there, left me feeling isolated an none of them tried to help feel a part of the group. It didn't help that in March I had another surgery, so I had even more time off.
The course I am doing atm is a computing course, but in September I am switching to social science, so I am hoping that course will help me make friends, but that obviously means I have nothing to help make friends until then.
I also live in a pretty rural area so most events you could suggest to go to, to try and make friends, simply don't happen here.
I desperately want to make friends that live close to me, but I just don't know if it's possible for me. All the avenues I have tried lead to nothing, which just depress me even more, it doesn't help that my college isn't doing anything other than your course, so there's no extracurricular activity I could go to, but that may be starting off in September.
If there's anything, anything at all, you could suggest that could help me make a friend that lives close by, because it looks like I have tried everything that's available to me, multiple times and they have all led to failure.
I really really want a friend, I truly do but it just doesn't seem possible.