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I am in a situation right now
I have a surgery on the 22nd February and my brother, who is a graphics designer, has a show on the 19th February.
I am autistic and don't cope well in hospitals on my own but despite that my Mum is choosing to go to my brother's show instead of my surgery.
Hospital rules states that you have to isolate for 3 days before you go in, so going to that show means that she can't be with me at any point during my stay at the hospital which will be a week.
So I have 2 options either delay the surgery or go on my own, delaying it means I could possibly have another episode of pain before I go in.
Am I wrong for thinking that my Mum is selfish that she's picking my brother's show over my surgery?
Keep in mind she has put me first all the time before this, thus is the first time she isn't.
Edit: the day I would need my Mum is the day of the actual surgery, I think I would be fine the other days but not the day of.
I have a surgery on the 22nd February and my brother, who is a graphics designer, has a show on the 19th February.
I am autistic and don't cope well in hospitals on my own but despite that my Mum is choosing to go to my brother's show instead of my surgery.
Hospital rules states that you have to isolate for 3 days before you go in, so going to that show means that she can't be with me at any point during my stay at the hospital which will be a week.
So I have 2 options either delay the surgery or go on my own, delaying it means I could possibly have another episode of pain before I go in.
Am I wrong for thinking that my Mum is selfish that she's picking my brother's show over my surgery?
Keep in mind she has put me first all the time before this, thus is the first time she isn't.
Edit: the day I would need my Mum is the day of the actual surgery, I think I would be fine the other days but not the day of.
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